Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends

Platonic

How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends

2022 • 337 pages

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Average rating4.2

15

I think book could be useful for anyone pushing past their mid 20s, as friend groups tend to start dwindling down. There are a good number of tips to maintaining your friendships and how to communicate grievances so that your needs in the relationship can also be met. Since the book is for making friends the author didn't delve into it, but it would have nice to have more discussion of when to call it quits in a friendship, since many of the tips came with thorough examples I just feel like this would have been a good opportunity to guide the reader through ending relationships that were not healthy for either party.

My only other gripe for the book is as the author mentions, the studies are often studies of small groups of white heterosexual American college students. So while the book is based in science, the science itself is not a good representation of the population.

*review copy via Netgalley

January 4, 2023