Stoner
1965 • 288 pages

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This book has lingered in my thoughts long after I finished reading it, leaving me with a profound yearning for other works that evoke a similar sense of longing and melancholy. Initially, I approached it as just another classic—one of those that was tedious with prose that droned. However, something compelled me to keep turning the pages, captivated by the narrative of a man who was raised on a farm and turned away from his agricultural upbringing to pursue academia.

The book explores themes of sacrifice, duty, and isolation, while examining the intricacies of ordinary existence. It chronicles the life of William Stoner, detailing his personal and professional journey, including his marriage, attainment of a doctoral degree, and parenthood. Despite these significant achievements, his life gradually unravels into a loveless marriage, a career fraught with political strife, and a daughter who grows distant. Although he encounters trials, he continues to teach English Literature and his pursuits. Stoner's character is both deeply flawed and deeply sympathetic. In some moments, you wanted to shout at him through the pages as he made decisions that brought his downfall. Stoner had a quiet resilience that resonated powerfully and reminded me of people in my own life, who make decisions or are impacted by life events, but must go on living for the sake of their family, their career, or themselves.

It also thoughtful examined the academic life and analyzed its complexities, flaws, and inherent contradictions. The isolation of the academic, the disillusionment of knowledge and its pursuit, and conflict between practical and idealism.

Stoner draws powerful parallels to everyday life, prompting readers to reflect on their own existence and ask, “How am I living my life?” Personally, while my experiences differ significantly from William Stoner's, I found a deep resonance in his feelings of personal struggle, unfulfilled dreams, isolation, and resilience. The novel raises important questions about whether these themes represent the essence of human existence.

I highly recommend this book and understand why it has become a favorite for many. As of 2024, it stands as my favorite read of the year.

July 23, 2024