Breaking Bread with the Dead

“Why read?”

“Why read old books?”

“How do you live a good and tranquil life?”

All of these are questions I often think about. Alan Jacobs also considers those questions, and the result of his thinking is Breaking Bread with the Dead.

Alan Jacobs starts by looking at the storms (I'd call them Category 5 hurricanes) that blow around us in contemporary life by means of the onslaught of news and social media. To survive, to stand, to move ahead amid the storms requires, he tells us, “personal density,” a term that comes from one of the characters in Thomas Pynchon's book, Gravity's Rainbow. Jacob writes, “...the development of personal density, to which reading old books can be a vital contribution...might provide...a port, for however brief a time, in the storm.”

How to achieve this personal density? We tend, according to Jacobs, to spend time with others like us. “But I believe,” Jacob tells us, “that any significant increase in personal density is largely achieved through encounters with un-likeness.” Jacobs reminds us that the French thinker Simone Weil that looking for eternal truth can be difficult to do when we deal with our actual neighbor because emotions tend to be close to the surface. Books, on the other hand, offer some emotional distance.

One of my favorite parts of this book is where Jacobs shares some thoughts from Italian novelist Italo Calvino about reading old books. “Your classic author is the one you cannot feel indifferent to, who helps you to define yourself in relation to him, even in dispute with him.” Jacobs goes on to share a little more Calvino: “A classic is something that tends to relegate the concerns of the moment to the status of background noise, but at the same time this background noise is something we cannot do without.” During the process of encountering a book from the past, “When we perceive some sudden dissonance between ourselves and those people, we should not run from that dissonance but straight toward it,”Jacob asserts. Further he adds, “This testing of our responses against those of our ancestors is an exciting endeavor—a potentially endless table conversation, though, again, one we can suspend at any time.”

I loved this marvelous conclusion by Jacobs, where he talks about deeply meeting with people from the past: “When we own our kinship to those people, they may come alive for us not just as exemplars of narrowness and wickedness that we have overcome, but as neighbors and even as teachers. When we acknowledge that even when they go far astray they do so in ways that we surely would have, had we been formed as they were, we extend them not just attention but love, the very love that we hope our descendants will extend to us.”

Author Alan Jacobs is interviewed at The Trinity Forum here.