The Secret Story of an Unwanted Daughter
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When Adeline Yen Mah's mother died giving birth to her, the family considered Adeline bad luck and she was made to feel unwanted all her life. Chinese Cinderella is the true story of her struggle for acceptance and her triumph against almost overwhelming odds.
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This is a sad book, and there is no doubt that the emotional torture the author was put through as a child is appalling. However the saddest part for me is that Adeline's story is probably far from uncommon, and possibly could have been a lot worse. She was born into a wealthy Chinese family, the fifth child (second sister), and her birth resulted in the death of her mother. Her father quickly remarried, and his new wife produced another boy and a girl.
In this sibling setup, Adeline ranked last, without doubt. The only sibling who gave her any sort of friendship or comfort was the third brother, a little older than her.
Her stepmother is the stereotypical evil stepmother, who feels no emotional bond to her, and considers her a hindrance.
The book covers Adeline's early life, and ends with her on a ship on her way to England to attend university. The mere fact she has been schooled, and is sent to university and not married off to a 40 year old man suggests her unfortunate childhood could have been a whole lot worse. Luckily for her there was an Aunt and a grandfather who looked after her interests, and although they were quite powerless in the scheme of things.
This book covers the same ground as her ‘Falling leaves', although I think this one is targeted at a younger audience - the writing and themes are very simple, even laboured at times, which would suggest it is aimed at YA. It has been a number of years since I read Falling Leaves, but I think the her childhood up to University age occupies about a third of that book.