Essays and Aphorisms

I don't get it, is being a misogynist a prerequisite for being a male philosopher?

“Women are suited to being the nurses and teachers of our earliest childhood precisely because they themselves are childish, silly and short-sighted, in a word big children, their whole lives long: a kind of intermediate stage between the child and the man, who is the actual human being, ‘man'”

how to continue after this wretched statement??? I did anyway. I cannot stand pessimism but I liked the first two essays and the essay on aesthetics, the rest were just especially- in the words of his mother- irritating.

If you are having a bad day, here's a tip: stay away from Arthur Schopenhauer and anything he has written. To say that his work is a downer is putting it lightly: to read Schopenhauer is morbidly depressing and gloomy, and requires many hours of post-reading uplift in the form of stupid comedy or time spent with cooing children in order to recuperate.The reason for his doom is clear once you understand his philosophy: according to Schopenhauer, all human action is futile and pointless, and thus our existence is to not find peace or enlightenment, but instead to overcome frustration pain. This is immediately obvious in the title of the first essay in his collection of [b:Essays and Aphorisms 19510 Essays and Aphorisms Arthur Schopenhauer https://d.gr-assets.com/books/1386922267s/19510.jpg 20739], originally published as Parerga and Paralipomena in 1851. That title, quite fittingly, is “On the Suffering of the World,” and perhaps aptly, he follows that one with “On the Vanity of Existence.”If you make it that far into [b:Essays and Aphorisms 19510 Essays and Aphorisms Arthur Schopenhauer https://d.gr-assets.com/books/1386922267s/19510.jpg 20739] without needing to take a break from all the gloom, I applaud you. After those first two essays, I took a long, nightmare-plagued nap from which I awoke feeling distraught and purposeless. It took me another six seatings to finally make it through the entire collection, and while I was emotionally drained by the end of it, the entire exercise was worth it.Reading [b:Essays and Aphorisms 19510 Essays and Aphorisms Arthur Schopenhauer https://d.gr-assets.com/books/1386922267s/19510.jpg 20739] was worth it mostly because, between all the articulation of suffering and pain, Schopenhauer has some cogent ideas on the how to break ourselves from the self-delusion that we are all inherently happy and that there is something wrong with us when we are not. Allowing ourselves to feel pain and to understand that it is part of our existence is important because it gives us a self-awareness that helps us understand ourselves and the world around us a bit better.There are some laughable parts of the collection—his essay “On Women” is a piece of misogyny that is worth skipping—and the book features a lot more pessimism than is perhaps healthy, but there are some enlightening moments when he discusses our relationship with time, morality, animals, and even self-criticism. [b:Essays and Aphorisms 19510 Essays and Aphorisms Arthur Schopenhauer https://d.gr-assets.com/books/1386922267s/19510.jpg 20739] is worth visiting if only to see how it influenced later thought and art, or even just as a reminder that we all have our own demons, no matter how candy-coated we like to pretend life to be.(Full review on I Tell Stories.)