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A rare, intimate account of a world-renowned Buddhist monk’s near-death experience and the life-changing wisdom he gained from it “One of the most inspiring books I have ever read.”—Pema Chödrön, author of When Things Fall Apart “This book has the potential to change the reader’s life forever.”—George Saunders, author of Lincoln in the Bardo At thirty-six years old, Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche was a rising star within his generation of Tibetan masters and the respected abbot of three monasteries. Then one night, telling no one, he slipped out of his monastery in India with the intention of spending the next four years on a wandering retreat, following the ancient practice of holy mendicants. His goal was to throw off his titles and roles in order to explore the deepest aspects of his being. He immediately discovered that a lifetime of Buddhist education and practice had not prepared him to deal with dirty fellow travelers or the screeching of a railway car. He found he was too attached to his identity as a monk to remove his robes right away or to sleep on the Varanasi station floor, and instead paid for a bed in a cheap hostel. But when he ran out of money, he began his life as an itinerant beggar in earnest. Soon he became deathly ill from food poisoning—and his journey took a startling turn. His meditation practice had prepared him to face death, and now he had the opportunity to test the strength of his training. In this powerful and unusually candid account of the inner life of a Buddhist master, Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche offers us the invaluable lessons he learned from his near-death experience. By sharing with readers the meditation practices that sustain him, he shows us how we can transform our fear of dying into joyful living. Praise for In Love with the World “Vivid, compelling . . . This book is a rarity in spiritual literature: Reading the intimate story of this wise and devoted Buddhist monk directly infuses our own transformational journey with fresh meaning, luminosity, and life.”—Tara Brach, author of Radical Acceptance and True Refuge “In Love with the World is a magnificent story—moving and inspiring, profound and utterly human. It will certainly be a dharma classic.”—Jack Kornfield, author of A Path with Heart “This book makes me think enlightenment is possible.”—Russell Brand
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This was a book that raised more questions for me as I read it than it provided answers. I enjoyed Rinpoche's account and his journey of leaving his comfortable life in the monastery behind for a life travelling on the road and living on the road without any support around him. I thought it was bold and brave of him to make the journey and made me think whether I could do the same or something similar. In part my takeaway here was about doing something that's scary without concern of what could go wrong, taking more risks. But I don't think that was the point of the book. Rather for Rinpoche it was to deepen his faith, his meditation practice and his awareness. There was a lot of the teachings in the book that I couldn't grasp or see the value of. Rinpoche would argue that by undertaking this journey he benefits and then is able to share his knowledge and findings with others for their benefit. While that might be true for those in his community for me besides the lesson and value of doing uncomfortable things I wasn't moved much.
There was a lot of focus on Buddhist teachings and one area that I couldn't understand was the self. Asking who Rinpoche was, how occasionally there was no self but sometimes there was left me confused. In this I'll need to go deeper elsewhere to better understand the teachings around self and no-self.
The other takeaway was dealing with uncomfrtable things, meditating through them and accepting one's circumstances. I think there's a tension however between accepting and acting to change circumstances and I didn't get a sense of how to navigate this tension in the book. For example when he fell ill, he seemed to accept he was ill and not fight it or seek to remedy it. But then at other times he had taken action, acting to start the whole journey, acting to board a train. Perhaps it's knowing what's within your control, acting to change wherre you can and then accepting the consequences of action, accepting what you can't change. Knowing this difference is important but he didn't really focus on this.