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Imagine yourself alone and vulnerable, trapped by a husband you thought you trusted, and held prisoner in his native Iran; a land where women have no rights and Americans are despised. For one American woman, Betty Mahmoody, this nightmare became reality, and escape became only an impossible dream. Not Without My Daughter is the true story of one woman's desperate struggle to survive and to escape with her daughter from an alien and frightening culture.
Betty had married the Americanized Dr. Sayed Bozorg Mahmoody in 1977. His interest in his homeland had been revived since Khomeini's takeover, and he had increasingly expressed his desire to introduce his five-year-old daughter Mahtob and his American wife to his beloved family in Tehran.
Betty and her daughter anxiously awaited the end of their vacation in this hostile land, but the end never came--Moody had other plans for his family. Betty and Mahtob became virtual hostages of Betty's tyrannical husband and his often vicious family.
Hiding her secret meetings from her husband and his large network of spies, a desperate Betty began to plan her escape. But every option involved leaving Mahtob behind, abandoning her to Moody and a life of near-slavery and degradation.
After a harsh and terrifying year, Betty discovered a ray of hope--a man would guide them across the mountain range that forms the border between Iran and Turkey. One dark night, Betty and Mahtob escaped and began the long journey home to Michigan, but first they had to survive a crossing that few women or children have ever made.
In this gripping, true story, Betty Mahmoody tells her tale of faith, courage, and constant hope in the face of incredible adversity. Breathlessly exciting, Not Without My Daughter is a rivoting true adventure that grips its readers from the very first page.
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- [Reader's Digest Condensed Books. Volume 1. 1988](https://openlibrary.org/works/OL15398159W/Reader's_Digest_Condensed_Books._Volume_1._1988)
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There are many reviews/comments condemning this book as anti Iran/Islam propaganda. Maybe I some eyes it is. But to me the story Betty told about her Life in Iran in the 80s felt never hateful towards the people.
There were many good moslem people who tried to help and console her they just couldn't do much not because of their anti American sentiment but because they couldn't act against the law. The regime and Moodies fanatical family are the villains in her story. Not Iranians. Sure there was the horrible people police but she also wrote her realization that all those aggressive law enforcers seem to be brain washed since the first grade as they tried with Betty's daughter Mahtob when she was forces to go to school there.
Also Betty herself found Islam and praying to Allah as something positive, she did it often. Where is there hate against Moslems?
I think patriotism and wokeness blind peoples eyes to her message. It's about fear, abusive of power and bravery to overcome these.
I finished this book feeling pity for Betty, Mahtoob and Iran and the people who live in misery there.