Ratings5
Average rating4.4
This is a lyrical and poignant exploration of gender inequality in parental obligations, focusing specifically on the less glamorous aspects of motherhood, particularly in the context of newer motherhood experiences. The prose is so beautiful, and the monologues were so heartfelt that even I was mesmerized. The story is narrated from the perspective of the mother, “Sailor,” so the observations may be somewhat subjective. However, the author effectively portrays the psychological and mental anguish she experiences without adequate support, a situation that is sadly not uncommon. The honesty and boldness of the narrative feel genuine and refreshing. It's reassuring to see authors openly discussing the challenging aspects of motherhood without the feeling of guilt and also by not placing undue burden on innocent children.
This was both the hardest and most beautiful book I've read all year. It's a painfully honest depiction of the first years of motherhood, and wow did it resonate with me. The overwhelming love and loss that goes along with becoming a mother is so clearly and eloquently laid bare - so many times I just found myself in chills.
I am sure this will not be for everyone - it is nearly all interior thought, with very little plot to speak of. I think some may find it too honest for their liking. I think it's brilliant, and I will definitely be reading this one again.
(Women's Prize for Fiction longlist 2024)