Ratings8
Average rating3.4
This is a book about an almost universal anxiety that rarely gets mentioned directly: an anxiety about what others think of us; about whether we’re judged a success or a failure, a winner or a loser. This is a book about status anxiety.
We care about our status for a simple reason: because most people tend to be nice to us according to the amount of status we have (it is no coincidence that the first question we tend to be asked by new acquaintances is ‘ What do you do?’). With the help of philosophers, artists and writers, the book examines the origins of status anxiety (ranging from the consequences of the French Revolution to our secret dismay at the success of our friends), before revealing ingenious ways in which people have learnt to overcome their worries in their search for happiness. It aims not only to be entertaining, but wise and helpful as well.
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Une réflexion extrêmement intéressante sur notre statut social et le regard / jugement que l'on porte sur soi même et ses accomplissements. Nous faisons tous face à des moments où nous avons l'impression de ne pas valoir grand chose, d'être “moins bien” qu'autrui, ce livre aide à remettre les choses en perspective en forçant tant au questionnement intérieure qu'à la mise en perspective de ce que l'on considère comme une “vie réussie” ou être “quelqu'un de bien” à travers les âges. Énormément de sagesse qui aide à remettre ses idées en place et à recentrer de façon plus équilibrée le regard que l'on porte sur soi.
Another solid 3.5. This one was a slower start but some good points were made.
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