How to Start a Conversation, Keep It Going, Build Networking Skills -- and Leave a Positive Impression!
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Communication expert Debra Fine reveals the techniques and strategies anyone can use to make small talk - in any situation. Do you spend an abnormal amount of time hiding in the bathroom or hanging around the buffet table at social gatherings? Does the thought of striking up a conversation with a stranger make your stomach do flip-flops? Do you sit nervously through job interviews waiting for the other person to speak? Are you nervous when it comes to networking? Then it's time you mastered The Fine Art of Small Talk. With practical advice and conversation 'cheat sheets,' The Fine Art of Small Talk will help you learn to feel more comfortable in any type of social situation, from lunch with your boss to going out on a date to a cocktail party where you don't know a soul. The Fine Art of Small Talk teaches you how to:· Start a conversation even when you think you have nothing to say; Steady your shaky knees and dry your sweaty palms; Prevent awkward pauses and lengthy silences; Adopt listening skills that will make you a better conversationalist; Approach social functions with confidence; Feel more at ease at parties, meetings and at job interviews; TUrn every conversation into an opportunity for success
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This book details great points, especially for casual relationships or business networking. This book does discuss dating or relationships a bit, but I do think it is an important distinction that there are times when small talk is appropriate and good, and other times when deeper, more serious conversations are better. I don't remember if the author mentioned that or not. I know I tend to want to jump into the deep end right away, but I need to be more aware of small talk opportunities and be okay with them.
Human interactions and conversation is so nuanced and filled with so many variables and unwritten, unspoken rules. It's a wonder that we get anything done and a truly strange, remarkable thing that we just expect people to know how to interact with one another.
Summary of the Main Points:
Take the initiative
Remember and use their name
Let them lead
Ask open ended questions
Mirror
Change topics if needed
Exit conversation gracefully