Smart Solutions for Everyday Discipline Dilemmas and Behavioral Problems
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IMAGINE HAVING A PEDIATRICIAN ON CALL TO ANSWER ALL YOUR QUESTIONS ABOUT PARENTING. From tantrums to sleeping problems, bullying to bed-wetting,The Parent’s Problem Solveroffers parents quick, commonsense, and compassionate solutions that work, from an author who is not only a pediatrician but also a mother of four. Whether your child is an infant or already in school, Dr. Cathryn Tobin’s insightful advice will help you create positive changes in your parenting strategies—and your relationship with your children—immediately. “Discipline, in a nutshell, is giving children tools to succeed in life. This book shows parents how.” —William Sears, M.D., coauthor ofThe Baby BookandThe Discipline Book “Dr. Spock helped us understand our children, but Dr. Tobin helps us understand ourselves. By the time you finish reading the first chapter, you’ll find a new approach to parenting problems that you can rely on.” —John and Linda Friel,The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do “This is a wonderful book! Dr. Tobin gives us a brand-new twist on solving problems with our kids. If Dr. Tobin can’t be your pediatrician, read her book!” —Jack Canfield, coauthor ofChicken Soup for the Mother’s Soul
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I wasn't very impressed. Sure, it's a good idea to think what you might be doing to encourage your child's bad behavior, but it's not always 50% your fault (and the solutions she suggests put more than 50% of the changes on the shoulders of the parents). Some solutions sounded good, like ignoring tantrums so they don't get the attention they want, but others were very unrealistic. For instance, just ignoring backtalk is not going to make it go away, in my experience. And if I told my kids that they wouldn't get punished for doing something wrong as long as they told the truth about it, I'd probably have very honest trouble-makers.