We Could Have Been Friends, My Father and I: A Palestinian Memoir

We Could Have Been Friends, My Father and I

A Palestinian Memoir

2022 • 192 pages

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Aziz Shehadeh was many things: lawyer, activist, and political detainee, he was also the father of bestselling author and activist Raja. In this new and searingly personal memoir, Raja Shehadeh unpicks the snags and complexities of their relationship. A vocal and fearless opponent, Aziz resists under the British mandatory period, then under Jordan, and, finally, under Israel. As a young man, Raja fails to recognise his father's courage and, in turn, his father does not appreciate Raja's own efforts in campaigning for Palestinian human rights. When Aziz is murdered in 1985, it changes Raja irrevocably. This is not only the story of the battle against the various oppressors of the Palestinians, but a moving portrait of a particular father and son relationship.

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A love letter to the life, battles, and determination of Shehadeh's father in the face of immense adversity, and a tragic reminder that the fight to abolish Israel's stranglehold on Palestine that began 75 years ago is still being fought today.

October 10, 2023

No rating because I don't rate memoirs but wow. If you're looking for a memoir that is both very personal and informative but somehow also very relatable even if you share little to no circumstances with the writer this one has you covered.

Highly recommend.

January 24, 2024