Women Don't Owe You Pretty

I especially related to Chapter 1, ‘Feminism Is Going To Ruin Your Life', because it did in fact ruin my life. When I first started looking into feminism more, I became aware of so much blatant misogyny. It's in everything, it's everywhere, and it really does ruin your happiness. Things that you used to once enjoy now leave a sour taste in your mouth.

I also really appreciate that Given made many notes about POC, disabled, and trans women and the problems that they have to go through that other women do not. I always feel as if the feminist movement is dominated by white cigendered women and I valued seeing more diversity, it gave me an entirely new perspective.

With that being said though, at lot of what Given wrote was repetitive. Most of the book was what any feminist had heard before, I feel she started out pretty strong in the first chapter but it gradually became stale. The last 6 or so chapters I found myself skimming pretty hard.

the first book that every girl needs as they're growing up is that american girl doll ‘care and keeping of you' book. the second is florence given's Women Don't Owe You Pretty.

i cringe thinking of all the times in my life this book would've come in handy as near-free therapy. while from the outside it seemed like very live-laugh-love feminism, instead we got class-conscious, privilege-acknowledging, girlbossing feminism. love the book, hate that it took me 24 years before reading it