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A couple determined not to end up like their divorced friends try a radical experiment—and get in way over their heads—in this hilarious, heartfelt novel from the author of We’re All Damaged. New York Post’s Best Books to Read in Our Age of Social Isolation • “[Matthew] Norman’s funny and feeling writing makes for an irresistible read.”—Esquire (Best Books of 2020) The Core Four have been friends since college: four men, four women, four couples. They got married around the same time, had kids around the same time, and now, fifteen years later, they’ve started getting divorced around the same time, too. With three of the Core Four unions crumbling to dust around them, Jessica and Mitch Butler take a long, hard look at their own marriage. Can it be saved? Or is divorce, like some fortysomething zombie virus, simply inescapable? To maximize their chance at immunity, Jessica and Mitch try something radical. Their friends’ divorces mostly had to do with sex—having it, not having it, wanting to have it with other people—so they decide to relax a few things. Terms are discussed, conditions are made, and together the Butlers embark on the great experiment of taking their otherwise happy, functional marriage and breaking some very serious rules. Jessica and Mitch are convinced they’ve hit upon the next evolution of marriage. But as lines are crossed and hot bartenders pursued, they each start to wonder if they’ve made a huge mistake. What follows is sexy, fun, painful, messy, and completely surprising to them both. Because sometimes doing something bad is the only way to get to the heart of what’s really good.
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There is so much more I want to write about this book actually. It both fascinated me and had me shaking my head many, many times.
I'm no moralist here but man I find Jessica utterly unlovable. Sorry but it's true. Mitch was no victim or anything but a total idiot. When your wife comes home and “randomly” proposes the idea of opening up your marriage to “save it”, let me tell you that probably isn't going to end well for you buddy. Also, her idea isn't actually RANDOM at all. She's saying she doesn't want to screw YOU anymore dude. Might as well hit the road right then.
Instead Mitch ends up not sleeping with anyone, so basically he let his wife screw a guy that tried to get her to leave Mitch for him and never look back. Lucky Mitch had those kids with Jessica. Or the book title would have been changed to “Last Couple That Got Divorced.”
I love the writing and it was hilarious too. Just don't believe the story plot would be realistic.