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Even as a reporter, Sheila Hamilton missed the signs as her husband Michael's mental illness unfolded before her. By the time she had pieced together the puzzle, it was too late. Her once brilliant, intense, and hilarious partner was dead within six weeks of a formal diagnosis of bipolar disorder, leaving his nine-year-old daughter and wife without so much as a note to explain his actions, a plan to help them recover from their profound grief, or a solution for the hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt that they would inherit from him. All the Things We Never Knew takes readers from Michael and Sheila's romance through the last three months of their life together and into the year after his death. It details their unsettling descent from ordinary life into the world of mental illness, and examines the fragile line between reality and madness. Now, a decade after Michael's death, Sheila and her daughter, Sophie, have learned the power of choosing life over retreat; let themselves love and trust again; and understand the importance of forgiveness. Their story will resonate with all those who have loved someone who suffers from bipolar disease and mental illness.
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I think the biggest problem I had with this are the sources used for the statistics. Given that this book was only published a few years ago, I don't like that a large number of the sources used are 10-15+ years old. (One is nearly 30 years old!)
I also can't help but feel (particularly given that I don't see the source citing it unless I'm missing it) that the statistic that “more than half of people with bipolar disorder commit suicide” is inaccurate and inappropriate to include.
I also didn't really care for the author but that was the least of the problems I had with this.